- What was your impression of Xavier and Samantha’s first meeting? Why did they butt heads to start with?
- On the same note, why do you think Xavier couldn’t stop thinking about Samantha?
- After they reconnect, Xavier asks Samantha on a date. Why did she agree to the date even though she was moving the next day?
- Do you feel they are a good match? Why or why not?
- Initially Samantha tells Xavier to forget her, but they both can’t and then try to make long distance work. Have you ever been in a long distance relationship?
- Samantha returns back to California to help care for her mother who is suffering from early onset Alzheimer’s. What were your thoughts as you read those scenes between Samantha and her mother?
- Xavier has a complicated past, his parents were abusive and he has since gone no contact with them. How did this impact how Xavier handled his other relationships in his life?
- While Xavier and Samantha are a perfect match—the outside circumstances are forcing them apart. Samantha won’t leave her mother, and Xavier can’t leave his practice in Minnesota. Do you see why the two of them still fought for the relationship, or do you feel it was too much fighting against them to stay together?
- This one features tropes such as insta love and long-distance relationship. What are your feelings on these tropes, and do you have a favorite trope?
- In the end, the two can’t be apart and Xavier takes on extra help, and opens a second practice in California. Him and Samantha eventually marry and the whole family still helps her mother. What were your thoughts on the ending?
- Some readers feel this story is more of a contemporary/women’s fiction novel rather than a straight-up romance. What are your feelings about this? Do you like when romances cover heavy topics and themes or do you prefer them to be lighter?
- Who would you cast as the lead roles in a film or TV adaptation?
Say You’ll Remember Me by Abby Jimenez
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