Printable: Book Club Questions for All Adults Here by Emma Straub

The story starts off with Astrid witnessing Barbara struck and killed in a school bus accident. How did this impact Astrid going forward?
She becomes quite fixated on Barbara—despite saying that she never really liked her. But we later learn that the reason behind Astrid’s dislike is because Barbara stumbled upon Astrid’s son Elliot and another teenager boy kissing. When she told Astrid, her response was that she was mistaken and then she snapped at Elliot to not do that in public. This is a huge scene in the novel—why do you think Astrid responded like this? Why do you think Astrid blamed Barbara for her own behavior toward Elliot?
We learn quickly that Astrid is in love with Birdie, a woman. What do you think was the catalyst for her to finally embrace who she truly is?
Astrid announced to her grown up kids that she’s bisexual. Her children all respond differently. Let’s talk about their different reactions and this big moment for Astrid.
Porter decides to have a child by IVF but in many ways, she’s still immature despite being in her late 30s. What do you think was behind her decision to continue the affair with her high school boyfriend Jeremy? Do you think it was unrealistic for her to think they would have a future?
Elliot is the serious one and stressed out. He really wants to get the approval of Astrid but feels like he’s always falling short. What was behind Elliot’s push to get approval from his mom? Do you think no matter your age, you always want your parents approval?
Cecelia is Astrid’s granddaughter. Nicky sends her to live with Astrid after Cecelia experiences some bullying at her old school. Let’s talk about Cecelia’s storyline and how she bonded with August/Robin. How did they help see the best in each other?
This book covers birth order and how parents can treat each child differently, even in adulthood. Do you think birth order has an impact on people’s relationship with their parents?
Could you relate to any of the sibling or parent dynamics in this story?
What do you think the title—All Adults Here—mean in context to the story?
The story’s tagline is “coming of age isn’t just for kids.” Do you agree with this?
Clapham is a small town where everyone knows each other’s business. If you do live in a small town, what are some things you like and dislike about it? If you don’t live in a small town, do you think it sounds appealing or do you prefer city life?